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Relationships • Breaking Up & Heartbreak

How Not to Break Up with Someone

Telling someone you don’t want to be with them is always difficult. But there are better and worse ways of doing it. Realising that you shouldn’t be with someone isn’t the worst thing. It’s not daring to tell them in a frank, timely and liberatingly brutal manner.

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The Psychology of Anxious Attachment

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The Psychology of Anxious Attachment

We might expect that the most natural response to being told by a kind, patient and attractive person that they…

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The Psychology of Avoidance

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The Psychology of Avoidance

One of the most perplexing of all our behaviours is our tendency – in relationships – to flee from the…

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Changing Yourself Rather Than Trying to Change Your Partner

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Changing Yourself Rather Than Trying to Change Your Partner

We know – of course – that they urgently need changing. Where do we start with the problems? They are…

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A Chance to Be Bad in Relationships

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A Chance to Be Bad in Relationships

It sounds odd to suggest that one of the things we may most long for, and in a sense even…

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Four Kinds of Sexual Deviancy and What They Really Mean

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Four Kinds of Sexual Deviancy and What They Really Mean

We don’t typically imagine that sexual deviants have very much to teach us about anything. We tend to read of…

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When One Person Has to Be Needy so the Other Can Feel Invulnerable

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When One Person Has to Be Needy so the Other Can Feel Invulnerable

Sometimes, without anything being explicitly said, couples come to certain remarkably awkward and sinister agreements between them about who might…

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