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An Interesting Life Rather Than a Happy One
We typically assume that the ultimate aim of all our efforts is to have a happy life. And judged on…
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A Crucial Sign That Someone is Worth Going Out With
There is one sign that more than any other indicates that someone may well be a rewarding and trustworthy person to go out with: that they are prepared to go to therapy.
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There Are No Small Issues in Love
The only way to prevent the largest problems is to focus exhaustively and with dark good humour on the very smallest ones.
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On Not Being Very Good at Love
Our romantic fiascos can get a little less arduous the more we can bring ourselves to shrug our shoulders and confess with a very dark smile: I really can’t do this thing called love.
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The Wisdom of Liming
On the Caribbean islands of Barbados and Trinidad and Tobago, there’s a skill which is widely revered, which has been…
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Reasons Not to Give Up
In one of the upper rooms of the Ashmolean Museum in Oxford hangs a picture by a minor Danish nineteenth…
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The Need – Sometimes – Not to Complain
We know so much about the importance of complaining; of standing up against problems; of pointing out what is wrong;…
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The Pleasures of the Underground
There are moods – of dissatisfaction and loneliness, panic and despair – when the very best counsel we might be…
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Self-Knowledge
Is There Something Wrong – or Am I Just a Very Miserable Person?
We can spend a lot of our lives angrily focused on just how hopeless and awful many things are: this…
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Why Small Pleasures Become a Bigger, Not a Smaller Deal, the More We Suffer and Age
There’s an apparent paradox in the way that the longer we have lived, the more appreciation we tend to develop…
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Relationships
A Crucial Sign That Someone Is Worth Going Out With
There is one sign that more than any other indicates that someone may well be a rewarding and trustworthy person…
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Relationships
There Are No Small Issues in Love
We are sometimes let down by an unhelpful idea about how big an issue needs to be in order to…
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Leisure
The Wisdom of Liming
On the Caribbean islands of Barbados and Trinidad and Tobago, there’s a skill which is widely revered, which has been…
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Leisure
Reasons Not to Give Up
In one of the upper rooms of the Ashmolean Museum in Oxford hangs a picture by a minor Danish nineteenth…
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Sociability
The Need – Sometimes – Not to Complain
We know so much about the importance of complaining; of standing up against problems; of pointing out what is wrong;…
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Leisure
The Pleasures of the Underground
There are moods – of dissatisfaction and loneliness, panic and despair – when the very best counsel we might be…
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Self-Knowledge
Is There Something Wrong – or Am I Just a Very Miserable Person?
We can spend a lot of our lives angrily focused on just how hopeless and awful many things are: this…
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Leisure
Why Small Pleasures Become a Bigger, Not a Smaller Deal, the More We Suffer and Age
There’s an apparent paradox in the way that the longer we have lived, the more appreciation we tend to develop…
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Relationships
A Crucial Sign That Someone Is Worth Going Out With
There is one sign that more than any other indicates that someone may well be a rewarding and trustworthy person…
View
Relationships
There Are No Small Issues in Love
We are sometimes let down by an unhelpful idea about how big an issue needs to be in order to…
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